ようこそ!自由の世界。

ここに私の空ですよ!
ここに多分大きくなかった、でも特別の世界です。
ここに悦子の自由の空だ!

YES! YES! YES!
yOU are stepping into a freedom world, without border......
AnD this is my place---- ETSUKO home!




Wednesday, June 13, 2007

90%

Don't lose that 90% you already have. Adultery happens

when you start looking for what you don't have.
"Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. I'm crazy about her because
she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my
spouse is not."

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more
charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have
greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and
pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 90
of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife
looks for the missing 10%.

Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn
to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laughter. Or because your wife is a
homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may
fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your
office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt.

Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when
you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have. Don't throw away the 90%
that you already have! Add to your spouse's 90% the 100% that represents
all the years that you have been with each other.

The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of
sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love
the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.
But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already
have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.
I'm talking about life!
About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline???

The main message: If you start appreciating what you have right now,
wherever you are is FIRST CLASS!


だけど、人生に大切のことは今の持って事。賛成しますか。

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