ようこそ!自由の世界。

ここに私の空ですよ!
ここに多分大きくなかった、でも特別の世界です。
ここに悦子の自由の空だ!

YES! YES! YES!
yOU are stepping into a freedom world, without border......
AnD this is my place---- ETSUKO home!




Thursday, March 21, 2013

Why Not Me?


Stepping into early thirty, got to admit that, I, myself did learn at least one life theory in daily life.

  - Always react with ‘Why not me?’ instead of ‘Why me?’

Bingo, right?
Everybody definitely has straight-forward reaction when any incident or obstacle happen, we always burst out and yell directly or maybe indirectly – ‘Why me?’
This is human nature, nothing wrong when we saying so, it just proved that we are just human!

But, couple years ago, I read something about this term from some ways or some places, it provided me a chance to have a deep thought – why we never say ‘Why not me?’ in life?

Human beings face any obstacle or any negative struggle in life, the first thought definitely will be blaming why they are the one who have this fate instead of accept the fate calmly and solve the existing problem.

Every moment when we are blaming ourselves as the victim position in any situation, we tend to gain the sympathy from others, pleading the pity from public seemed may ease the sorrow caused. However, don’t we handle and solve the problems by ourselves eventually?
Any other outsider manages to help you overcome those ups and downs?

The truth is none of them manage to offer the helps even the most intimate ones in your life. It’s because life is a lonely path, nobody in the world except your own self to experience it all by yourself. Simple understanding, you’re the only master towards your heart, your soul and your body, and that’s the reason you should use ‘Why not me?’ in your life.

For sure, everyone knows that it is not an easy job to make a switch of the thinking mind, and of cause it need time and experience to train. Maybe you may take the first step whereas try to kick out the mindset of ‘Why me?’ while facing any hard times. You may just to be calm and accept the happenings and immediately turn your thinking mind to the solution mode, it works for you to reach the path of saying ‘Why not me?’ more frequently.
This is definitely a life task.

As for me, I yet to reach the final stage, fortunately now I’m on my way to solution mode instead of ‘Why me?’ stage. To achieve the final stage, life training is always needed and I do stay calm to deal with that.

Hey, dear all, why don’t you just give a try?
Remember ‘Why not me?’ in your mind and try your best to apply it in your daily life; and you will sense the miracle appears in your life!

Love and bless you all! 

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